luvyourselfsomeesteem:

Dudes want nudes. They want you to come over and “chill”  They want want you to get in to all the most freakshit possible the first week they meet you but you present the idea of an actual date and thir brain goes into shock. It’s partially my fault too cause I tried to pretend like I was down but I hate it. I hate this hookup culture. It ain’t who I am. I don’t care about being cool anymore. If a nigga think I’m killing the vibe by wanting to talk and actually get to know him even dare be in a relationship before sex so be it. I deserve to more and I want more.