cha-fu:

I like being alone.  I thoroughly enjoy the lack of obligations that go into it.  And it’s not that I wish to banish the idea of a relationship, I’m just aware that my present maturity doesn’t give me the chance to provide someone with the quality time that they deserve.  I refuse to let the person whose willing to take that leap with me feel neglected at any point of that relationship and I know right now that I reside in my head far too much to communicate my feelings properly… at least not 100% of the time.  I see many people chase a relationship far too early with the eagerness that I admire but they aren’t one with themselves yet. I understand growing with someone, but that’s sometimes impossible if you’re on two different sides of the emotional scale.