If you meet a dude & ya’ll end up having sex hella fast. DO NOT THINK that just because y’all fucked.. he gone make a good boyfriend. Sex ain’t got shit to do w/ the second part of that title. boy-“Friend.“
1. Boy = someone w/ a penis, so y’all can fuck.
2. Friend = loyalty & respect.
Sex is hella overrated when the 2 people having it aren’t on the same page.
If your plotting to make a dude your man & you haven’t seen the depths of his soul… You’re gambling on the 2nd part of that title “Friend.”
“What are we?” – Yo! if you ever gotta ask that question, then you aren’t on the same page w/ that boy. Would you ask your bestfriend “Are we best friends?” Naw you know that shit cause their actions scream it!
A lot of the same rules apply to a relationship that apply to a friendship. You wouldn’t just believe someone is gonna be a loyal friend until you went through some trials & tribulations together.
A “boy” will fuck you every day of the week.
A “friend” will hold you down everyday of the week
If you feel 100% confident that he has both of those qualities down pack. >>>Then open yourself to him…
But if he’s only capable of doing the “boy” part don’t let him touch your soul bae. He ain’t your fucking friend !! He will eventually destroy a part of you, that you will never be able to get back.
I wish I was told this before.
Life with Tierra 